My wife thinks masturbation is cheating

At that point, I ran in the closet, and he left. Look at that credential. I said seeking out porn is engagement with a digital prostitute. I told my husband I forgive him but I have been going through a lot of discouragement, crying in moments, and just feeling like I am not completely satisfying my marriage. But I knew enough… almost 2 weeks worth. NO, as It would bad if that where the case. Obviously I am hurt by this, but what really hurts is that I have shared with him that my previous marriage was destroyed by this very thing, and that it was one of the most painful times in my life.

Porn Videos. Is it common to masturbate while thinking of other things beside your girlfriend? Users who thank CarolineEF for this post: 1billybob. It certainly feels like cheating for me.

I find my husband extremely attractive…even as he continues to age. Am I now suddenly remaining faithful to my marriage vows because someone hit the record button? In one instance we have no interaction but lust, and in the other there is no interaction but romantic feelings. Only what you do in reality matters. We both work and have kids but were having sex around times per week.

If you can imagine not seeing or talking or touching your spouse for 4. Even though this sounds completely implausible, I do believe him now. It makes me wonder if our marriage will last. I myself was positive that this couldn't be a real thing, but then I started doing some digging and it turns out that there are people out there who really do feel this way about about their partner indulging in the pleasures of their own flesh. Because I truly wanted to believe God for this miracle, I was able to muster up some hope, and I poured everything I had into making sure that the past was behind us and only a bright future would be ahead. So my advice is before we move forward declaring how horrible it is to break one or the other covenants, we think just a little bit about how we drive and if as a society we need to face reality and either raise the speed limits to reflect how we truly behave or simply start doing the right thing.